35 [M4F] Western NY - Looking for geeky companion

2021.10.20 16:12 yavitz 35 [M4F] Western NY - Looking for geeky companion

For starters I am 35 yo and live in WNY with my partner and our fur children. Yes, I am married and in an ENM relationship with my partner. I understand this is not for everyone, so if this is not your cup of tea no worries and good luck to you!
I can't really complain about my current situation but like many others, it has become increasingly clear to me over the pandemic how isolated I am. I tend to be more introverted and have been working from home for the past 2 years so that really limits my opportunities to meet new people. Looking for someone who has similar interests and wants to be an activity partner. Ideally I would like to grow the relationship into something romantic, but I would totally be cool with platonic as well.
Here is a little about me in no particular order. I deal with social anxiety but am totally one of those people that once I open up I am lots of fun and can talk for hours. I like to watch scary movies on rainy days. My music tastes vary and I tend to obsess over a particular sound until I run it into the ground. I do binge watch shows occasionally but I can get into particular moods about what to watch. Mostly I just like to enjoy things that have substance so I can analyze it and philosophize. I only occasionally watch sports on TV but I do enjoy them and love going to games in person, especially hockey. Some of my favorite things are avant garde film, the horror genre, new wave/pop-punk/post hardcore music, superhero comics, science fiction, and board/video games. If you like some of these we will probably like each other as too! :)
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2021.10.20 16:12 Rockdom_666 So No Dividend Until December? Fuck!

Sorry but I bought in at $9 and have been holding since mid September. The only reason I bought in was for the short term rip on the dividend! Now I have to hold for two more months? I have four other places where I could be making money right now...
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2021.10.20 16:12 ryanhiebert Banks that give real-time transaction notifications

I'm trying to build a personal finance app or integration. I'm looking for some bank, US-based, that can give me near-real-time transaction notifications about pending and cleared transactions. Many banks have mobile apps that will notify you with transactions. I want to somehow plug into that in order to feed my personal finance overview for my household.
Of course, the obvious place to go is Plaid, to integrate with any API. They do seem to have some kind of support for notifications, but the rep I talked with today doesn't know of any banks where this is any kind of a reliable notification mechanism.
I want couples like my wife and myself to be able to communicate each transaction, and immediately see how that affects our budget. Having the budget be the focal point of communication, including updates, has proved to be a real challenge.
Anybody have some hints for me?
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2021.10.20 16:12 Shoulderista Eclipse P360A D-RGB Case Help

I am planning to build a PC soon and will be using a Phanteks P360A. I noticed it comes with a DRGB Controller through the case itself so I want to make use of it instead of downloading those buggy softwares so I need someone to guide me through this. I want to know a couple of things:
- What sort of cables does it come with? I am going to have 5 ARGB fans in my case. 2 for intake, 1 exhaust and 2 radiator fans. Whats the best solution to fit all 5 ARGB fans and have them work from the case buttons? Do i get a 5-way splitter which connects to the P360A DRGB cable from the 5 fans I have or is there any other way?
- Can I use Cooler MasteCorsair fans or can I only use fans from Phanteks? I plan to use CM fans for my intake and exhausts. Radiator would be deepcool fans which came together with the AIO.
- I will be using a Gigabyte B560 Aorus Pro which has 2 ARGB headers. Since I want them to be controlled from the case alone, I can leave them headers alone right?
P.S: I'm hoping to see Pirog-v-Kote in the replies because I see him everywhere and I assume he has lots of experience with Phanteks cases from what I've seen
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2021.10.20 16:12 Ken_thememegod What is the most fucked up thing you have seen (Part 2) ?

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2021.10.20 16:12 coconutmochiballs I feel depressed that straight men like penises & trans women for their penises, but straight women & gay men don't like vaginas & trans men. & because straight men give less oral sex to vaginas than straight women & gay men give blowjobs. How do women accept vaginas are so less appreciated? Advice!

I think it represents that vaginas are not appreciated; even by straight men. And that vaginas are liked a lot less than penises.
Feminists online ALWAYS say vaginas are seen a gross, taboo, that women have to beg for oral sex, that due to misogyny men are obsessed with penises and find penises more interesting which is why they then fetishize trans women who have vaginas physically replaced with penises. These are all the common feminist opinions, never anything positive about how vaginas are viewed. They must get these views from somewhere for them all to say it.
It made me hate my vagina, consider never having sex or getting a penis through surgery.
Trans women online always say straight men massively fetishize them for their penises and want them for their penises. Trans men say nobody wants them due to their vaginas.
Trans women porn and ladyboy sexual tourism industries are popular, trans men porn has no demand.
Also are vaginas seen as more gross and taboo than penises?
Are gay men more openly disgusted by and insulting towards vaginas than lesbians are towards penises?
And is society penis obsessed/are penises, boobs and butts appreciated more than vaginas and are men more fascinated by large penises than by vaginas?
Also if you look at the actuallesbians sub on Reddit, they always post about not caring about what genitalia a woman has, that they will suck a penis if it's on a woman and it's who the penis is attached to. Also I read many lesbians saying they watch gay porn, of 2 men and 2 penises.
Straight women and gay men however are exclusively into penises and gay men would never watch lesbian porn.
How do women still feel attracted while knowing vaginas are not appreciated by men? It honestly makes no sense whatsoever to me. Since humans are very sexual and vaginas are the most sexual body part on a woman. So what's left if they are not appreciated?
Also why do women always agree with all that I said when I ask this, yet men are more likely to disagree?
With oral sex, people say it's due to selfishness and that that's why straight men give less oral sex than straight women give. But gay men are men, and the selfishness doesn't apply to them since they commonly give oral sex and meet men or offer men just to give them oral sex. So again it's vaginas that are the issue and penises are not an issue. Or penises make people want to please them, vaginas make people not wanting to or not bothered to.
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2021.10.20 16:12 ThinkersCorner48 Shulgins I Have Known And Loved

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2021.10.20 16:12 farbyy Reoccurring UTIs

I (20f) have been dealing with UTIs for the past four years. I am bringing this up now because I have had 3 UTIs since September 1. I am currently dealing with one right now. They are super painful and I fear that having sex now will just bring on a UTI. Does anyone have any explanation as to why I keep getting them? I have been with the same partner for 4 years. I take d-mannose every day and I also take a probiotic.
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2021.10.20 16:12 musiclover255 Please help. I'm going insane. I need support, please.

Hey everyone. In this current time, this place feels the only place I can turn. I hope someone can give a perspective on what's happening and not call me crazy. TW mentions of r*pe and SA.
Lately there has been so much happening that I feel I can't fix by just 'having a better mindset' or 'learning how to cope' - it's to the point of where I genuinely see no way out other than medication. (going to the doctors is a struggle for me for too many reasons at the moment)
I'm going to be open and honest here because it's mostly anonymous so if I get judged like most people in person, then no one can put the name to the face besides one person.
I'm going to go in order of what I find the least severe/scary, but that doesn't mean they don't bother me because heck.. THEY DO.
1) I keep feeling absent from my body: Sometimes when I'm in class, or talking to someone, but especially when I get triggered, I feel myself just feeling disconnected from the world around me. When I try to focus, I can hear the words being said by the teacher, but my brain doesn't process them at all. A way of putting it, it's like my brain has ran out of storage so the information gets heard but not recognised. When I go into these stages my head hurts like hell, it feels like I'm slightly behind my whole body? So like, say the normal way we view the world is level 4, you see everything, process everything normally, but most importantly if you look at your hands you feel connected like they're your hands. But I'd say in these moments I feel at level 2. So, I can hear everything going on, I know I'm in my body, but I feel a few steps back from everything. As if I'm kinda watching it as another person but in first person? I hope this makes sense. I get so stressed in these moments because I'm doing a-levels (UK) so if you miss even 5 minutes of information, it can be pretty damaging to how you do in an exam. So the words just glaze over me when I want to listen. Oh and when people talk to me, I can't even understand basic sentences sometimes, and it feels absolutely horrible.
2) I keep having these very extreme moods that feel way too much to handle.
This used to happen when I was triggered (so if something connected to my traumatic past was brought up) but now it can happen because of something that angers or upsets me, or just because for no reason whatsoever. Usually, it's from pain. I go into this state where I feel really really high, and I mean mood high, but the cause is pain not happiness. My thoughts race faster than normal, and when I speak, I speak so quick, my mind lags behind in a sense. I hate this part so much, but, I lose my filter. So I say whatever comes to my mind without any thought, it all just comes out even if I don't wanna say it. I feel high on pain, so most people say my fast talking and way of speech makes me sound happier when I can never understand because I'm so pained. My body feels like electricity is travelling through it and it makes me want to do so many things. Like I have all the energy I don't know what to do with. In these moods, a common thing for me is to become a lot more impulsive than normal. I constantly get violent thoughts about hurting myself and some of them, I've been so close to acting out. Another common theme I've noticed, but not in all of these instances, I want to feel danger. Like I want to tightrope my roof, or lean out a car window, jump onto a motorway and dodge the cars. I hate it so much sometimes. Whatever emotion I'm feeling is heightened, and because I lose my filter, I feel so much guilt afterwards and then immediately get suicidl because I feel I've been too much of a burden to people and hurt every person I've interacted purely because I was in that mood. Recently, I've also had moments where I've felt so low also that I felt no worth. And kept saying how I wanted to 'sell myself and let all the men use me for my purpose'. I don't believe for anyone else this is a womens purpose, in fact I advocate women having the choice and no matter how many or who with, should be supported and never forced. Women are more than just sx machines. But for some reason I don't feel that for myself. In this moment I felt like if I did all of these sexual things, I'd become so numb that eventually I could no longer hurt, but my main thought was providing others with sexual favours to please them. Which scares me because being vulnerable is something I never wanna be, I hate the thought of s*x, hate it, I never want to engage in it. And this I guess 'hyper-sexual' part of me, scares the heck out of me.
3) I keep hallucinating things? This is a recent thing for about 3 ish weeks now? I keep hallucinating people touching me. Most of the time innapropiately. But sometimes not, and it doesn't actually feel like a touch, but my mind imagines it there. I have some trauma around being touched innapropiately so it could be that, but sometimes the hallucinations even go as far as feeling like I'm being r**ped (it didn't go that far with the actual experience, just a touch that made me uncomfortable in an area that they shouldn't have) . Sometimes I hear things like my name or noises, but that's not very often. And the name tends to be a mix between my deadname and the name Identify with. It's very scary, and when it happens, I can't help but want to curl into a ball and cry. But with this one, not many would believe me because they seem to think that I was never touched by an older man when I was younger. I think it's because I'm extremely patchy on the details, and only came to the realisation that it was basically SA years later when I remembered It (because I basically forgot about it and blocked it out I suppose), it was nearly 6 ish years ago now.
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2021.10.20 16:12 Quirky-Purchase-1809 Så skal Kipper guilttrippes endnu engang…. Give him a break han har fucking fødselsdag 🤦🏼

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2021.10.20 16:12 Gamer-Nurse_93 Legal Question Regarding Service Animals

I have recently been studying about how service animals are incorporated into the work place; and I discovered that if the animal is not a direct threat to any of the coworkers, then the animal is not allowed to be removed from the workplace. This is important as it supersedes other employees fears of animals or allergies, due to the workplace being able to make accommodations for said workers. However, my question comes into play when you have an employee who has been with the company and is known to have a severe (as in hospitalization may be required) reaction to pet dander and cannot have animals within their vicinity (we can use dogs for the example). So if a new hire was accepted into the company and it was known that they had a disability that required a service dog, and we know that this person could not be denied the job as it would be discriminatory; what would the current employee do? Could they make a cases that the service animal cannot come into the building due to their health, or does needing a service animal override the severe allergic reactions that the first employee has in this case? I am curious due to the fact that the ADA does list allergies as a disability (I am however assuming that fish depends on severity).
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2021.10.20 16:12 DialZforZebra Struggle of the day: Taking a companion with you and finding them sitting down when you need them.

Why is it whenever I need to unload my junk, or some back up, or someone to hack the expert terminals, is my fucking companion sat on his ass? Who programmed this and thought it would be useful? It's the apocalypse Muthafucka, we don't have time to sit around!!!
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2021.10.20 16:12 Rpark888 Any govt contractors experience transition into 1099 independent contracting?

Sorry if this isn't the best sub for this question, but, I figured there are a lot of contractors in this area.. anyway.
I'm a govt contractor looking for new work and was recently reached out to by a company that finds 1099 independent consultants contracting work, and they really want me to join their pool of independent consultants.
I'm a certified Change Practitioner (Prosci, ACMP) and a PMP, so I usually don't have a terribly hard time finding work in this area, but more and more lately, I've been wanting to explore remote opportunities in the private sector.
But here's the thing, I'm not used to NOT having health benefits, 401k matching, and all the other industry standard benefits of being a govt contractor.
The hourly rate translates to roughly a $30k "pay-bump" in annual salary, but, I'd have to buy my own health insurance, figure out my own taxes, and move cash into retirement without employee match.. etc.
It's all new territory for me, and I was hoping anyone could chime in with their advice and experience for me.
Thank you, in advance.
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